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CYBERBULLYING and it’s effects on young people.

Cyberbullying has changed the way bullying affects young people. In the past, bullying often ended when a child left school. Today, it can follow them home through phones, social media, and messaging apps, making it almost impossible to escape. The emotional damage caused by cyberbullying can be severe, especially when it goes unnoticed for long periods.

Sophie was just 14 when her teacher, Ethan, noticed something was wrong. She had become withdrawn in class, avoided her phone, and seemed distracted and uninterested in her schoolwork. These changes may not seem alarming on their own, but together they formed a pattern that Ethan recognized as a sign of distress.

Like many teenagers, Sophie found it hard to talk about what she was going through. Fear and embarrassment kept her silent. When Ethan involved her parents, they slowly learned that Sophie was being bullied by her peers, both at school and online.

What made Sophie a target was something many children experience. She wore glasses because of myopia. For years, it had not mattered. Then suddenly, classmates began mocking her appearance. The teasing spread quickly and turned cruel. Sophie lost friends and became isolated, labeled as “different.”

The bullying became far more dangerous when it moved online. Former friends created a fake social media group designed to humiliate her. The group grew rapidly, and Sophie was tagged in hateful posts and sent abusive messages. She was threatened with the exposure of private messages and false rumors if she spoke out. The bullying continued for months, silently damaging her mental health.

By the time adults intervened, Sophie had begun self-harming. This moment highlighted how deeply cyberbullying can affect a young person when it is hidden and unresolved. With support from her teacher and parents, the fake accounts were reported, the bullying stopped, and steps were taken to prevent it from happening again.

Today, Sophie is confident, resilient, and preparing for college. Her story reminds us that cyberbullying is serious, but it is not unstoppable. Early attention, open communication, and teamwork between parents, teachers, and schools can protect children and help them heal.

How Self-confidence and Self-awareness Builds the Foundation for a Child’s Growth.

Every child’s journey toward success begins with two invisible tools, self-awareness and self-confidence. They may sound simple, but together, they shape how children see themselves, respond to challenges, and grow into emotionally healthy adults. As parents, teachers, and caregivers, nurturing these traits from an early age gives our children the foundation they need to thrive in school, relationships, and life.
Self-awareness means helping a child recognize who they are, their feelings, strengths, weaknesses, and the impact of their actions on others. A self-aware child knows when they’re happy, sad, frustrated, or scared, and can express it instead of acting out. It’s not about making them perfect; it’s about helping them understand themselves.
Parents can build self-awareness through open conversations. When your child throws a tantrum or seems upset, instead of saying, “Stop crying,” try asking, “What made you feel this way?” This small shift invites them to name their emotions, and naming emotions is the first step toward managing them. Teachers can do the same in classrooms by encouraging reflection. For example, asking “How did that test make you feel?” or “What do you think you did well in this project?” helps children connect their emotions to their actions and outcomes.
Self-awareness also helps children develop empathy. When they understand their own feelings, they begin to recognize similar feelings in others, which builds kindness and cooperation, values every community needs.
Nurturing Self-Confidence
Self-confidence, on the other hand, is the belief in one’s ability to succeed. A confident child feels capable of trying new things, even when they might fail. Confidence does not mean arrogance; it means security, the quiet inner voice that says, “I can do it.”
Parents and teachers play a huge role here. Confidence is built through consistent encouragement, positive reinforcement, and celebrating effort, not just results. When a child’s drawing is messy, instead of pointing out the flaws, you could say, “I like how you used so many colors!” This teaches them that trying is valuable.
Children also learn confidence by observing adults. When parents model self-belief, for example, by admitting mistakes and still trying again, kids learn resilience. The same applies to classrooms. A teacher who praises curiosity, effort, and teamwork creates a safe space for confidence to bloom.
How do they work together?
Self-awareness and self-confidence are two sides of the same coin. When children know who they are, they become confident in expressing themselves. When they are confident, they are more willing to explore new aspects of themselves. Together, they produce emotionally intelligent, adaptable, and self-driven individuals, qualities the world desperately needs.
Our Final Thoughts.
Raising a child with self-awareness and confidence takes patience, but it’s worth every effort. Talk to them. Listen to them. Let them try, fail, and try again. Remind them they are enough, and that every mistake is just another lesson on their path to growth.
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